When Social Media Posts and Text Messages Can’t Prove a Common Law Marriage

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By Michael Granata on Apr 17, 2026

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Introduction: Why This Texas Appellate Case Matters for Dallas Couples

If you’ve been living with a partner in Texas and consider yourself married, even without a ceremony or marriage certificate, you may be surprised to learn just how difficult it can be to prove an informal marriage in court. A 2026 Texas appellate decision, W. v. W. (2026 WL 234041), offers a sobering look at what happens when a claimed common law marriage is contested, the evidence is conflicting, and a jury gets to decide the truth. For anyone navigating a similar situation in Dallas or the surrounding communities, consulting an experienced Dallas divorce attorney before disputes escalate to the courtroom is essential.

Per the published opinion, this case involved a professional athlete and his long-term partner, a child born during the relationship, expensive property transactions, a planned wedding celebration, and competing narratives about whether the two parties ever truly agreed to be married. The Court of Appeals of Texas, Beaumont, ultimately affirmed the trial court’s judgment denying the existence of an informal marriage. The ruling carries significant implications for Texas family law, particularly around the “holding out” and “agreement” elements of informal marriage under the Texas Family Code.


Case Background: A Contested Common Law Marriage in Texas

C.W. filed a Petition for Divorce against J.W., alleging that the two became informally married on or about July 25, 2020, under Texas Family Code § 2.401(a)(2). She argued that they had agreed to be married, moved into a Houston home together, traveled to Jamaica to celebrate, and publicly represented themselves as husband and wife through social media posts, private communications, and their conduct in the community.

J.W., a professional football player, denied that any informal marriage ever existed. He acknowledged the relationship and a shared child born in March 2022, but maintained that the couple was only engaged, not married, and that the wedding, planned for April 2023, never took place. He also disputed the authenticity of several social media posts that appeared to reference C.W. as his wife, claiming that she had accessed and altered his accounts without permission.

The trial court granted a bifurcated proceeding to first determine whether a marriage existed. A jury heard testimony from multiple witnesses, including the couple’s private chef (who gave conflicting accounts of what she believed and was allegedly offered money to change her story), J.W.’s State Farm insurance agent (whose records listed both parties as “single”), C.W.’s sister (who testified she heard J.W. refer to C.W. as his wife), and both parties themselves, whose accounts were sharply contradictory.

The jury answered “No” to the question of whether J.W. and C.W. were married. The trial court signed a Final Judgment Denying Informal Marriage and stated that C.W. would take nothing on her informal marriage claim. C.W.’s subsequent Motion for New Trial was also denied. Issues related to child custody and child support would presumably proceed in separate proceedings.


Legal Analysis: What the Court Actually Decided, and Why It Matters

The Three Elements of Informal Marriage Under Texas Law

Under Texas Family Code § 2.401(a)(2), an informal—or common law—marriage requires proof of three elements: (1) an agreement to be married; (2) cohabitation in Texas as spouses after that agreement; and (3) representation to others in Texas that the parties are married. All three elements must be established. The absence of any one of them is fatal to the claim.

The appellate court focused primarily on the first element: the agreement to be married. To establish this element, prior Texas case law requires that the parties intended a “present, immediate, and permanent marital relationship” and specifically agreed to be married. S. v. M., 352 S.W.3d 280, 283 (Tex. App.—Houston [14th Dist.] 2011, pet. denied). An implied agreement may arise from the parties’ conduct, but, crucially, such an implication cannot be drawn when direct evidence shows that a genuine agreement to be married was never reached. A. v. G., 493 S.W.3d 156, 160 (Tex. App.—Dallas 2016, pet. denied).

Why C.W.’s Evidence Fell Short

C.W. presented what she characterized as substantial evidence of an agreement, including: J.W. asking her stepfather for her hand in marriage; J.W. proposing and giving her a ring; J.W. hiring an attorney to draft a prenuptial agreement; J.W.’s intent to conceive a child with her; and the couple’s deliberate decision to relocate to Texas after researching common law marriage.

The appellate court held this evidence was not conclusive. It conflicted with a substantial body of contrary evidence, including: text messages in which C.W. referred to herself as “single” and “engaged” well after the alleged July 2020 marriage date; an October 2022 text from C.W. stating she had been engaged since 2021; C.W.’s own admission during cross-examination that she was unsure whether she was married as late as September 2022; the couple’s tax returns listing both parties as single; no joint bank accounts or credit cards; and C.W.’s acknowledgment that she never texted, emailed, or posted anything about being married on July 25, 2020, the alleged wedding date.

The Holding Out Element and Jury Charge Instruction

The court also addressed the “holding out” element and a disputed jury instruction. Texas law requires more than occasional spousal references to establish holding out. Smith v. Deneve, 285 S.W.3d 904, 910 (Tex. App.—Dallas 2009, no pet.). A couple’s community reputation as married is a significant factor.

C.W. challenged a jury charge instruction stating that “isolated references to each other as husband and wife, without more, are insufficient” and that community reputation is a “significant factor.” She argued this was an improper comment on the weight of the evidence. The court disagreed, finding the instruction was an accurate statement of applicable law, supported by the evidence at trial, and properly within the trial court’s considerable discretion. G. v. M., 554 S.W.3d 645, 675 (Tex. 2018).

The Motion for New Trial: Witness Availability and Diligence

C.W. also argued she was entitled to a new trial based on newly discovered evidence, specifically, that her wedding planner, K.G., had been threatened by J.W. and refused to testify out of fear. The court applied the four-part test from Waffle House, Inc. v. W., 313 S.W.3d 796, 813 (Tex. 2010): the new evidence must have come to the party’s knowledge after trial, its delayed discovery must not be due to lack of diligence, the evidence must not be cumulative, and it must be material enough to probably produce a different verdict.

The court found C.W. failed to satisfy this standard. K.G. had been listed in J.W.’s pretrial disclosures, yet C.W. did not include her on her own witness list, did not take her deposition, and did not comply with the trial court’s procedure for remote testimony. The trial court found that C.W.’s failure to secure the witness’s testimony reflected a lack of diligence, not newly discovered circumstances. Any Dallas family law attorney can tell you that securing witness testimony and meeting procedural deadlines before trial begins are non-negotiable obligations.


Key Takeaways for Dallas Residents

What does W. v. W. mean for you? If you believe you are in a common law marriage, or if a partner is claiming one—the outcome of your case will depend heavily on documentary evidence, including text messages, tax returns, financial records, and insurance policies. In Texas, courts look for consistent, community-wide representation of marital status, not isolated social media posts. The earlier you speak with a Dallas divorce attorney about your specific circumstances, the better positioned you will be to understand your legal rights.


Strategic Insights: What We’ve Learned from This Case

This case illustrates that informal marriage claims live or die on the strength of contemporaneous evidence. Alternative approaches that might have strengthened C.W.’s position include preserving and authenticating social media evidence earlier in the process, ensuring key witnesses were deposed before trial, and maintaining consistent public representations of marital status across financial and legal documents, including tax filings and insurance records. For anyone in Dallas considering a Dallas divorce lawyer consultation, the time to build your evidentiary record is long before you ever step into a courtroom.


Protecting Your Rights: Speak with a Trusted Dallas Family Law Attorney Today

At the Law Office of Michael P. Granata, we bring more than 25 years of Dallas family law experience to every client relationship. Whether you are dealing with an informal marriage dispute, child custody concerns, or child support issues, we offer honest assessments, not empty promises, and strategic representation that is balanced with genuine compassion for what you are going through.

We proudly serve clients throughout Dallas and surrounding communities, including Irving, Richardson, Garland, Mesquite, DeSoto, Grand Prairie, Lakewood, Highland Park, Cockrell Hill, Lancaster, Seagoville, and Duncanville. If you are searching for an experienced divorce lawyer in Dallas or a trusted divorce attorney near me, we are here to help. Contact us today to schedule your confidential consultation and take the first step toward clarity and resolution.

Michael Granata
Michael Granata

Michael P. Granata is the Founding Member of the Law Office of Michael P. Granata in Dallas, Texas. He has practiced family law for more than 26 years, focusing on divorce, child custody, and child support matters. Admitted to the Texas Bar in 1999, Mr. Granata earned his B.A. in Philosophy from Hofstra University and his J.D. from Texas Wesleyan School of Law. His firm has been recognized in Best Law Firms 2025